25+ year trauma informed MD and whole-istic health coach helping women 40+ heal physical symptoms of stress and trauma.
Hey Beautiful, Whenever people think about health—even health practitioners, mind you—they usually focus on just one or two things. 👨🏽⚕️ The dietitian thinks it’s all about food. 🦴 The chiropractor swears it’s your nervous system. And honestly, it makes sense! Depending on your belief system and personal focus, maybe you’re trying to lose weight, quit smoking, or reduce stress. These are all great goals. And I don’t want to overwhelm you by saying everything is interconnected… 🚨 BUT EVERYTHING IS INTERCONNECTED!!! 🚨 My goal—and everything I do—is to help you see the bigger picture. To notice what’s happening inside you, what’s happening around you, and what you might be reacting to in ways you don’t even realize. Because yes, food matters. Movement matters. Rest matters. But let me ask you this: What about your relationships? That’s what we’re diving into today. 🤝 How Relationships Impact Your HealthYour body doesn’t just process what you eat and how much you exercise. It also processes stress, connection, and safety in your relationships. And if those relationships are full of conflict, neglect, or unresolved pain, your body feels the weight of that—literally. 1️⃣ Your Relationship with Yourself 🧘🏽♀️Your body hears everything your mind says. If your inner dialogue is full of self-criticism, doubt, and shame, your nervous system stays in fight-or-flight mode, leading to: 🔹 Chronic fatigue and burnout 🔹 Increased inflammation and pain 🔹 Difficulty sleeping or concentrating Healing starts when you shift from self-judgment to self-compassion. The way you talk to yourself matters just as much as how others talk to you. 2️⃣ Romantic Relationships 💞 A loving, secure relationship can regulate your nervous system and bring deep healing. But a stressful or unstable relationship can cause: 🔹 Digestive issues from chronic anxiety 🔹 Hormonal imbalances from emotional stress 🔹 Weakened immune function from ongoing tension If your body feels on edge in your relationship, your health is paying the price. 3️⃣ Family Relationships 🏡 Even if you’re an adult, your nervous system still reacts to childhood wounds. If you grew up in a stressful environment or have unresolved family tension, you might experience: 🔹 Autoimmune conditions linked to chronic stress 🔹 High blood pressure and tension-related pain 🔹 Emotional dysregulation and mood swings You don’t have to carry those patterns forever. Healing your perspective on family relationships can release a lot of the tension your body holds. 4️⃣ Friendships & Social Circles 👩🏽🤝👩🏾 The people you spend time with shape your mental and emotional health. Supportive friends can help lower cortisol (the stress hormone), while toxic friendships can: 🔹 Trigger anxiety and overwhelm 🔹 Lead to emotional eating or poor sleep habits 🔹 Drain your energy without you realizing it Ask yourself: Are my friendships lifting me up or pulling me down? 5️⃣ Workplace & Professional Relationships 👩🏭 Work stress isn’t just about the job itself—it’s about the people you deal with daily. If your workplace is full of tension, unrealistic expectations, or toxic dynamics, your body might respond with: 🔹 Chronic headaches and muscle tension 🔹 Digestive problems from suppressed emotions 🔹 Constant exhaustion from emotional labor Healthy boundaries at work are just as important as personal ones. 🔑 Your Relationships = Your HealthIf you’re dealing with mystery symptoms, chronic pain, anxiety, or exhaustion, ask yourself: 📌 Who in my life is adding to my stress? 📌 Where do I feel the safest and most at ease? 📌 How can I start shifting these relationships for my own well-being? Your body isn’t just reacting to what’s on your plate—It’s reacting to who’s at your table. 🤔 Reflection QuestionWhat’s one relationship that needs more balance in your life? What’s one small step you can take today to shift that dynamic? 💖 Why I’m the Answer to the Health Struggles You’re FacingIf everything I’ve shared today resonates with you, then you’re probably realizing something important: your health isn’t just about diet, exercise, or even genetics—it’s about the full picture of your life, including your relationships. But here’s the problem—most health professionals only see part of that picture. 🔹 A medical doctor will treat your symptoms but may not connect them to emotional and relational patterns. 🔹 A holistic health coach will focus on lifestyle and emotional well-being but may lack deep medical expertise. 🔹 A therapist may help with emotional struggles but won’t integrate physical healing into the equation. I do all three. ✅ I’m a fully trained and qualified medical doctor with 26 years of experience diagnosing and treating real medical conditions—including the very ones caused by chronic stress, emotional trauma, and toxic relationship dynamics. ✅ I’m a holistic health coach with years of experience coaching women through the hidden root causes of their suffering—helping them heal their mind, body, and spirit in ways that go far beyond traditional medicine. ✅ I’m a survivor and overcomer of some of life’s most difficult experiences. I don’t just teach theories—I’ve tested and proven my methods on myself and others. They work. 💡 Do you know anyone else with my exact blend of medical expertise, holistic coaching, and intuitive healing? I don’t. So if you’re tired of guessing, Googling, and going in circles with your health, maybe it’s time to try a different approach. Let’s unearth the root of your health struggles together. Click here to book a FREE DISCOVERY CALL with me I’ll see you inside. 💞 Hit reply and let me know your thoughts—I’d love to hear from you. 💞 With clarity & connection, DrLinJo She Heals: Unearthing the Root, Empowered by Intuition 🌿 💞 |
25+ year trauma informed MD and whole-istic health coach helping women 40+ heal physical symptoms of stress and trauma.